Chapter 1: Big News

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So here we are in September a few months into our marriage. The three of us, me, my husband and my son, in a one bedroom apartment. Things had been going pretty well for a family that just got thrown together. I was of course madly in love with Tony, but we were still learning about each other. I had quit my job because it was not giving me enough hours. Luckily Tony was making enough money that I could stay at home with my son. We were spending a lot of time with Jason and Vikki having fun. There were plenty of dinners and card playing. Then the good news came. We were PREGNANT! The unfortunate part was that we could not afford insurance so we had to suffer through for a while without seeing a doctor.

So here I am pregnant and miserable. This pregnancy was not anything like my first one. With Lane I never had morning sickness, I would just get a little queasy when I smelled certain foods. All in all my first pregnancy was very easy. This one however was not. Hello morning sickness! My sickness was so bad that on my birthday in November I threw up twice on the way from the movies, I felt awful. In December our good friends Vikki and Jason found out they were expecting too. Eventually I started feeling movement in my womb. During theses first months of our pregnancy we were teased relentlessly by friends and family alike that we were going to have twins. Then one day whilWei was taking a shower I got the kick of all kicks my baby hit me on both sides of my belly and I nearly lost my balance.

Now it is February and we have finally been able to get some insurance and get me to a doctor. We were so excited! We knew that since we were this far along the doctor would surely do an ultrasound and we could find out the sex of the baby. We decided to go to same OB/GYN as Jason and Vikki. In fact we made our first appointment on the same day that they had one. They stayed in the lobby with Lane while we met with the ultrasound tech. I lay there with my belly covered with jelly and the tech with the probe giving me the first look at my baby. She started with my lower abdomen and found the head then she followed the body up to the legs all the while taking measurements. When she was measuring the legs I noticed a circular spot on the side of the screen. I said “What is that?”

She said “It could just be one of your organs pressing in. Wait a minute.”

“No, what is that?” I said.

She moved the probe back down to the bottom of my belly, then said, “Well, that’s another head.”

Tony completely stunned said “You’re joking right?” even though he could see the screen.

I went on to ask the tech to make sure that there were only two, which thank God there were only two. The tech told us that she would need the doctor to come in and confirm her findings. When the doctor came in he did some looking around and told us that it appeared that they were both girls. He then mentioned something about there not being a membrane which meant nothing to me. He told us that he was not very experienced with this and wanted to refer me to a specialist. We walked out of that room in a daze. Before we made it to the lobby we had called our parents and gave them the news. Those conversations went a little like this:

Well, it’s a girl, and there’s two of them.

You’re kidding!

Nope.

When we got out to the lobby where Jason, Vikki, and Lane were waiting, Lane ran up to me and said “How many babies do you have in your tummy?”(Vikki had taught him to say this).

“How many do you want there to be?” I asked.

He turns and looks at Vikki who holds up two fingers. So he turns to me and does the same.

I looked right at him and said “Well, you got your wish. There’s two!”

Of course both Jason and Vikki’s mouth fell open.

The Begining

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I moved to Texas with my almost 2 year old son. I was a single mom living with my dad and stepmother. In my first year here I got a job, got a boyfriend, got fired, got a new job (only part time), and left that job for a full time job. On my first day of a months worth of training I met Vikki. She was very sweet and we became friends instantly. Soon after we met she introduced me to her husband Jason. Now during this time I was living with my boyfriend Jerry but wasn’t very happy and voiced these concerns to Vikki. She was very sympathetic to my problems and offered to help. I started hanging out with her and her husband who was working for an ambulance service and one night while he was working we went to play cards with him and his partner, Tony. I knew when I met Tony that there was something there. He was very sweet and a gentlemen. Things were not better with Jerry and while he was out of town I decided to leave, and Vikki had told me I could stay with them. I was only there for one night when Jerry convinced me to come back. During this time I was continuing to spend time with Jason, Vikki, and Tony. I have to admit that I was relentlessly flirting with Tony. Even though I went back things were still not ok with Jerry. Then one night I was hanging out with my friends at Tony’s new apartment and when I went to leave we kissed. The next day I left Jerry for good and moved in with Tony. At this point we have only known each other for 2 weeks. Being with Tony was just wonderful. He was so sweet. He was good to my son and me. I fell head over heels. It only took those first two weeks of being friends to realize that I loved this man. While living together we started looking for a house, we talked about the future and marriage. After two weeks of living together I looked at Tony as he was cleaning shrimp in our kitchen and said “Why don’t we just get married? We are already talking about marriage and we know we love each other.” He said yes. The next day we went and got our marriage liscense and three days later on June 11th 2004 we were married at the court house. Then the tough pa came we were having dinner with my Dad and Stepmother and we had to tell them what we did. You see we had decided to keep our wedding a secret because my mom who had raised me would not be able to be there so I didn’t think it was fair to let my Dad be there when she couldn’t. So there we are the begining of our story. We were friends for 2 weeks, we lived together for 2 weeks, then we got married.

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